Uncovering Pamela
Learning To Live After Losing A Person

The Beginning of a New Day

July 14th, 2008 by Pamela

My dad’s mom died when I was in the 9th grade from colon cancer.  I still miss her, as she was a wonderful woman.  Sadly, I didn’t get to see her as often as I would like because she lived in another state, but she was always nice to us and always accepting.

Yesterday, when I went into my parents’ kitchen, there was this small frame sitting on the kitchen table.  I was immediately taken back to my days as an overweight, frumpy, pre-teen.  Okay, much hasn’t changed over the years, :P but it did bring back memories.

You see, my grandma had this frame hanging in her bathroom for as long as I can remember.  I remember reading it every time I went into her bathroom and how I hoped that I could live my life by its words.  I tried to memorize it and succeeded for the most part.  Of course, over the years, I lost sight of the words, if not the meaning.

This is the beginning of a new day.  I have been given this day to use as I will.  I can waste it or use it for good.  What I do today is important, because I’m exchanging a day of my life for it.  When tomorrow comes, this day will be gone forever; leaving in its place whatever I may have traded for it.  I pledge to myself that it shall be gain, not loss, good, not evil; success, not failure; in order that I shall not regret the price I paid for this day.

While I may not have always succeeded, and in fact have failed miserably on occasion, I still strive to live my life by this code.

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Posted in Life in General

2 Responses

  1. carlos

    i really like that. words to live by fo sho.

  2. Skye-Lynn

    Wow, this is so beautiful and inspirational! Thanks for sharing. And your grandmother sounds like she was a wonderful woman!

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On June 5, 2006, I began my weight loss journey. Now, over a year later, I have lost enough weight to equal an entire person. I still have a bit left to lose, but am already struggling with the ways in which my life has changed. This is my journey. Thank you for visiting!

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