
I visited some really good out-of-town friends a couple of weekends ago and had a really wonderful time. It’s hard to live so far away from them. But while I was there, one of my friends noticed a habit that I have, of crossing my arms. I stand with my arms crossed. I sit with my arms crossed. I walk, at times, with my arms crossed.
I know body language. I’ve studied it, had classes in it at work, etc. I know that it portrays someone that is closed off to whoever s/he is talking to and appears unapproachable. But it’s [ ... ]